How to Make the Most of Your 20s (according to a therapist)

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Sam Lui
Published at : 07 Nov 2021
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Have you ever been curious on how to make the most of your 20s? You might find the answer from therapist Dr. Meg Jay, author of The Defining Decade and therapist who’s worked with twentysomethings. If you are looking for guidance on how to find a career or finding the right partner, this video is for you.

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0:00 Are 30s the new 20s?
1:51 Do you like reading? - Introducing Shortform!
3:31 We’re literally in our BEST years to be learning
4:57 Work
7:25 Weak ties
9:24 Being realistic
11:52:19 Dating down & your dating narrative
15:24 Moving In
16:54 There’s no ‘right way’ to live your life


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